30-Faces; Day 30 (a bit early just for Paul!)

An observer of life. A seeker of truth. An artist in dreams. The child of a king.
pencil on sketchpad
This is a picture of one of my newest dear friends...who is actually a 'blog friend'. She helps me stay centered on Christ and trust what God has placed within me...as I travel this journey.
The picture below is 'photo-shopped' with posterization, outlines and one other effect which I don't recall. I love playing with photo-shop as I learn to use it.
Blake is my youngest nephew and this picture reminds me of how much he has grown up. I took this picture one day when he was making a goofy face.
He is being forced to grow up too fast as his family is in crisis-mode right now, so I look at this picture and travel back to happier days for Blake and I hope and pray for happier days in his future!
I was on break the other day (at my paying job) and a few coworkers came in and saw me 'sketching' and said, "I didn't know you were an ARTIST!" I looked at them as if they had 3 eyes and said, "You know there are many FORMS of art. I am a writer, a poet, a painter, a stained glass artist, jeweler, etc."
I should have never said anything, but my poor ego was a bit bruised. So...one coworker asked if I would 'sketch' her husband from an old photo (Okay...God, I get it...it's NOT about me!).
I've only met Butch once but this photo she brought me looks nothing like the man I met. He is an alcohol who is dying. I would like to get a current picture and sketch it, but don't want to offend her. I brought her this 'rough sketch' today and she loves it and is going to hang it up for her husband. Hopefully it won't be too painful to remember the not so distant past.
I really like the look of Charcoal better than pencil, but I like the non-smearing of pencil (I am left handed and really struggle with smearing). Is there an in-between pencil/charcoal? I think I use too much pressure for pastels.